How to ask your crush to be your valentine
A low-pressure, playful way to ask your crush to be your valentine: a page with their name and a No button that runs away. Free, no sign-up.
You,
will you be my valentine?
Asking a crush is scary because the stakes feel huge. The secret is to lower them. Make it light, a little funny, and easy to answer.
A page with their name and a runaway No button does exactly that. It says "I like you" with a wink, so nobody has to have a serious, awkward moment in the hallway. They get to laugh, you get to be brave without sweating through your shirt, and the confetti does the celebrating for both of you.
Not ready for "valentine"? Ask "Will you go on a date with me?" instead and keep it casual. Choose the Sweet No button set ("Pretty please?", "I'll share my snacks") for something gentle. And if you're nervous, say so in the note. Honesty is charming.
Pick a love note to start from
Hand-written notes. Add their name and a detail or two, then make it yours.
Just a date (for now)
You just made my whole week, Maya. Don't worry, I'll make it fun. And if it's awkward, at least we'll have a great story. See you soon. I'll be the one smiling way too much.
Use this note →I was so nervous
Confession: I rewrote this question about fifteen times before sending it. Because you matter to me, Maya. More than I know how to say out loud without getting red. Thank you for saying yes. Your girlfriend title is official, effective immediately.
Use this note →Our first Valentine's
This is our first one together, Maya, and I wanted it to start with a yes. I don't know exactly what the future looks like, but I know I want you in it. Here's to the first of many.
Use this note →So glad I met you
When we met, I remember thinking: oh no, I'm going to like this person a lot. I was right. It hasn't been that long, but you already feel like one of the best things that has happened to me. Thank you for being my valentine, Maya. I'm so glad it's you.
Use this note →Questions, answered
How do I ask my crush to be my valentine without it being weird?
Keep it light and give them an easy way to smile. A playful page with their name works well because the joke takes the pressure off both of you.
Should I ask my crush out on a date instead?
If you haven't been out together yet, a date is a lower-stakes first step. Pick "Will you go on a date with me?" in the first step.
What if my crush says no?
The button is a joke, and real feelings matter more. If they aren't interested, they'll tell you, and that's okay. This page is best when you're fairly sure they like you back.
Is it free?
Yes. Their name, the question, a theme and the runaway No button are free. Photos and a love note are an optional one-time $6.99.
Can they actually press No?
On the page, no. It's a joke: the No button slips away every time they reach for it, and the Yes button gets a little bigger. In real life, of course they can say no. This is for people who are pretty sure of the answer and want to make the asking fun.
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